Our attorneys and staff understand that for most parents their biggest concern in a custody or paternity dispute is maintaining a close loving relationship with their children. These concerns about preserving one’s parent-child relationship are often complicated by pragmatic financial realities. Because timeshare arrangements can have a substantial impact on child support, financial obstacles often obscure the path to developing amicable parenting plans and timeshare arrangements.
Protecting Clients' Relationships with their Children
At the Law Offices of James S. Cunha, P.A.we understand that child custody disputes are the source of substantial anxiety, uncertainty and even hostility. Our attorneys are committed to assisting clients in finding ways to navigate past the emotional barriers that can prevent long-term stable co-parenting arrangements. We seek to negotiate amicable timesharing arrangements that minimize your anxiety and reduce the adverse impact on your children. Because the parenting and timeshare arrangements that we develop for our clients must survive long after the resolution of the divorce or paternity action, we are committed to fashioning stable, workable solutions that protect our clients and their children.
Historically, Florida law typically provided for designating a primary residential parent and non-custodial parent. This framework no longer applies as Florida has followed a national trend in moving away from the concepts of child custody and child visitation toward parenting plans and timesharing. The ultimate standard applied by Florida family law judges in cases that concern living arrangements and parenting responsibilities involving children in family law disputes is “the best interest of the child.” The rationale for the shift toward parenting plans and timesharing arrangements is based on a belief that it is in the best interest of children to have frequent and continuing contact with both parents. Generally, both parents will share parenting responsibilities and substantial amounts of time with the child unless one of the parents is shown to be unfit.
A parenting plan in a divorce or paternity action in Florida may be developed by agreement between you and the other parent or imposed by the court. Because an agreement that is constructed by parents will typically be more palatable and stable for both parents and their children, we work diligently to craft an effective parenting plan that meets the best interest of our clients and their children. When the court is called upon to create a parenting plan, there is a much higher chance that the agreement will be unacceptable to both parents and result in ongoing animosity and litigation. A Florida parenting plan should address a number of issues and carefully designate timeshare arrangements, including but not limited to the following specific issues:
- Specific allocation of time for where your children will reside during the week and on the weekends.
- Allocation of special days like Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, parents’ birthdays, and children’s birthdays.
- Arrangements for summer vacations and school vacations periods.
- Times and locations for timeshare exchanges.
- Manner and times for communication with the children (telephonic, e-mail, etc.).
- Procedures facilitating communication between parents to discuss parenting and timeshare issues.
- Determination of which parents address shall be provided to the school for residential purposes.
- Designation of responsibilities regarding health care and school related issues.
While it is almost always in your best interest to have our law firm to negotiate a constructive co-parenting arrangement as the foundation of your parenting plan, we are well aware that sometimes it is impossible to get the other parent to cooperate in reaching a mutually beneficial agreement. The attorneys at the Law Offices of James S. Cunha, P.A. are prepared to implement effective litigation strategies and utilize persuasive advocacy to obtain a parenting plan that you believe is in the best interest of you and your children. There are some very practical considerations which may have a substantial impact on determination of a parenting plan and timeshare arrangement in a contested custody dispute including:
- School Performance: Judges in child custody cases are well aware that there may be bitterness and animosity between the parents making allegations by either parent suspect. Academic performance provides an objective measure of a child’s performance that is difficult for either parent to manipulate. If either parent has had their children reside with them during the school week after parents separate, a child's academic performance, school behavioral issues and social adjustment may play a significant role in the court’s determination of the most appropriate timeshare arrangement. Our attorneys will typically request report cards, letters from teachers, records of academic awards, school disciplinary reports and other documents that quantify children's school performance.
- Work Schedule and Availability: Family law judges almost always express a preference for placing a child with a parent rather than with a babysitter or caregiver even if that caregiver is a family member. This is an important consideration in a contested timeshare dispute because the court will typically evaluate proposed timeshare arrangements based on the best interest of the child standard. It can be counterproductive to aggressively argue for parenting time when you are unavailable because of work or school obligations. This is an important strategic consideration because not only will the available parent likely prevail, but the court may view your request as a failure to prioritize your child’s best interest.
- Taking the High Road: Child custody disputes arise for a reason, which often means that the parents may have a less than amicable relationship. These feelings of mistrust and animosity can make it difficult to reach timeshare and parenting arrangements. Mr. Cuhna works diligently to help his clients navigate through these emotional roadblocks because judges place a high value on a parent’s willingness to promote frequent and continuing contact with the other parent. If you display an attitude supporting your children’s relationship with the other parent, the court is more inclined to presume that you are prepared to put the best interest of your children above your own negative feelings toward the other parent.
- Parental Fitness: Parents need to understand that the courts preference for substantial contact with both parents means that the court imposes an extremely high standard before finding a parent unfit. The court will have a strong preference to having both parents substantially involved in a child’s life unless there are very serious issues, such as child abuse, drug use, alcoholism, child neglect, child endangerment, spousal abuse, felony convictions especially involving use of force or violence and other serious issues.
- Residing in the Family Home: We know that it can be unbearable to reside under the same roof with your spouse or the other parent after your relationship has deteriorated. If you consider moving out of the family residence, you should first obtain legal advice from an experienced Palm Beach family law attorney because your decision can have serious, long-term repercussions on timeshare arrangements. Once you leave the family home, you may be at the mercy of the other parent when you seek access to your children until court proceedings have been initiated and temporary timeshare arrangements have been ordered. If you do not promptly initiate court action to obtain access to your children, the court may interpret your lack of action as a de facto agreement to allow the other parent to have the lion's share of parenting responsibilities. The status quo is important in any child custody dispute because courts like to preserve as much stability as possible for children. This means you need to be careful about the status quo that you create.
At our law firm, we are firmly committed to guiding you through the often tumultuous process of a child custody dispute and protecting you and your children from the potentially damaging consequences of a bitter and contentious child custody dispute. Even when a marriage or relationship with a significant other breaks down, co-parenting relationships endure for the lifetime of your child. Palm Beach Child Custody & Visitation Attorney
We are loyal and passionate about our clients’ cases and consistently seek the best possible resolution to their timeshare and parenting plan issues. We bring a substantial level of skill, knowledge and diligence along with the ability to think outside of the box so that we can be the most effective advocates for our clients. We understand the importance of preserving your close connection to your children and will work hard to protect your parent-child relationship. Contact us today.
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